Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Friends - Really????????????

Who is a friend? the one who keeps you away from doing worng or encourages you to do so or the one who does what you ask him to do.....a friend lost her job...she wants to get drunk thinking that will reduce her pain.... as a friend what should you do....help her get drunk or try to be there with her and help her face the situation bravely and make her understand that this is not the end of the world?? If you help he get drunk coz she wanted to....are you being 'good'? are you being a 'friend'? are you being a 'human'?
I am not exaggerating but I really feel we rather have no friend than have a friend like that.... who sees we are totally wasted and still offers us a drink, pays for our drinks and then the same friend drops us home.... its ridiculous....
is he really a friend?
okay may be there is nothing wrong in having a drink or two for fun....but to get drunk thinking that it'll help us reduce our pain just doesnt make sense to me...its foolery and an act of cowardness...more so when you know you are alone and need to drive back home...
may be I am way too traditional in my thinking but I am ready to correct myself if you think I am wrong! Give me an explanation...or else its hard for me to respect such a person!

3 comments:

Nilanjana said...

nice wrote yaar....i liked this very much....

angel from heaven said...

A friend is some one who will stick by for better and for worse ,someone who will provide guidance when needed and sometimes remain silent but near by.

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Dinesh Saroj said...

Hey Falguni nice to read you... am not sure if you still remembered me though...

As is great saying, "A Friend in NEED is a Friend Indeed."

Every thing that exist in this world is Relative... and so is our relationships and friendship is no exception...

Who decides what is needed, the needy or the friend of him/her...
and who decides whatever is needed is justifying with the situation or person or not...

Your question has no one certain answer..... we can't predefine what is right or wrong, it depends on the situation and also differs from situation to situation...

as in the case given by you, a true friend shall not deny him/her drinking at the moment if one urges for but at the same time should have to keep an eye on the quantity feasible for him/her drinking so that s/he shouldn't get drunk... and while the course of drinking try to keep talking to provide "moral support"...

"May you be always surrounded by Your Guardian Angels"

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